Six Tips to Surviving the First Underway

*For the safety of my sailor and his boat, there are no dates, locations or names posted. The article has been written and posted after his underway was long done and over. Β OPSEC for the win. I have been very fortunate in the fact that, for the first two years of this adventure, I have […]

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Five Tips on How to Handle the Distance

There is no denying that distance is hard and I would be silly if I told you that I have found a way to deal with it completely. I haven’t. But I have found ways to bring comfort during those times when I feel like my heart is literally tearing in my chest, those nights […]

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Arguing The Healthy Way In An LDR

Every so often me and Taylor will go through periods of time where literally all we do is fight. Really I think every couple goes through these periods of time every now and then. If you didn’t argue here and there the relationship would not be healthy. Over the years of many toxic relationships I […]

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What To Do When The Distance Is Too Much

A few days ago, I had a lovely follower of mine drop me an email asking what I do to overcome the distance. While reading her email I realized oh shit… Of the almost ten months I’ve been writing this blog never once have I made a post about one of the most important topics […]

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How To Spend Valentine’s Day…Without Your Valentine

I’ve seen a mixture of reactions towards Valentine’s Day. You have the crabby, single people who constantly moan and groan about being single. You have the “overly in love” couple that posts twenty different pictures on all possible social media of how in love they are. But what happens when you’re a military girlfriend?

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